Think Well

  • When last we left the intrepid novelist, she did not actually consider herself a novelist. Whether I write in first person or third it doesn’t change the fact that I don’t consider myself a “novelist” or an “author” or even a “writer,” (wellllllll, maybe a writer, now that I’ve finished writing a book) and I…

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  • It’s Like a Treasure Map to the Next Best You! Affirmations can be an easy first step to the life you desire. A map to your next best self!Are you thinking you tried them and they never worked for you. It might be true, but I think it’s because they weren’t customized to your special…

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  • Unveil Your Inner Strengths

    Sure, just do that, go ahead and unveil your inner strengths… Continuing my chatGPT “becoming my own Gandalf” journey. Side note: I have been a Gallup Strengths facilitator for 10 years and rarely do people know their strengths. I’m not just talking about the prescribed ones from Gallup, or rather Don Clifton the man who…

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  • Growing up (and also as a grown up) I always thought of “adventure” as Bilbo (or Frodo) Baggins setting off on a quest, as Buttercup and Westley escaping all manner of things, and Wendy and the boys traveling to Never Never Land. I thought it was BIG and Dangerous and also transformative. I think that…

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  • In the book “Will Grayson, Will Grayson” by John Green and David Levithan, one of the Wills asks Jane (whom he likes) to agree to be completely honest with each other and not worry about feelings for 10 minutes and then to go back to “normal.” I want you to do the same thing–I’m doing…

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  • I used to send out these little observations as day brighteners, I called them Joy Bubbles. And I loved it when someone would reply and tell me the joy bubble had, indeed, brightened their day, because when their day was brightened mine was too. It made me happy. Is that weird? No. And here’s some…

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  • Talking to Strangers

    Repost from an old blog: 2013 So, it’s hot out. I mean melt the candles, burn the soles of your feet, let’s go to the State Fair hot. We decided to go to the mall instead, you know the one–the big one, the Mall of America. Dang right, ‘Merica’s Mall!   I loathe it. Okay,…

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  • Worthwhile Life

    In order to have a worthwhile life I’m pretty sure you might have to have a belief in your own worth first. And just how does one go about that? Especially if you are like me, and you spent years saying, OUT LOUD, every Sunday, “Lord, I am not worthy to receive you, but only…

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  • I have a plethora of written material spread over numerous notebooks (paper and digital). Most of it should not be shared, but I’ve decided that if I see something that might help someone else take a step forward (and at the same time, to remind myself to take that same step) that I’ll share it.…

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  • Happiness Warrior

    Happiness Warrior

    I’m pretty sure when people think of “happy” people they don’t necessarily see them as courageous or strong, and yet, more than likely, they are happy because they understand how not to be crushed under the weight of fear and adversity. I remember being in a management class and we were talking about adversity and how to…

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